Thursday, 5 February 2015

13 Major Relationship Mistakes Men Make Over and Over Again.

Unfortunately, your man won't always do everything perfectly — and you can't expect him to. However, a compiled a list of mistakes that women wish men would absolutely stop making in their relationships. Does you man do any of these things?
 Last week a compiled list of relationship mistakes that women should stop making. The list was solid but a bit heavy on the progesterone. In the name of making this space some investigations were made (i.e. totally impartial and fair), we've compiled a list of stuff us dudes should probably quit doing in the name of healthy love and relationships.
 1. Getting philosophical during "cuddle time." Easy, Nietzsche, enjoy the silence. Wait till later to tell her why Washington is holding back the electric car.
 2. Watching TV, reading, surfing the Interwebs, and/or listening to music during an important conversation. Trust me, being able to recite the highlights (and a detail or two) of what she just said can go a long way. It's going to be tough if you have to ask yourself if she said it or if Al Michaels did.
 3. Leaving your shirt on during sex. Yes, I took this from Chelsea Lately, but it's brilliant: there is nothing stranger than a man wearing nothing but a shirt, unless that man is also wearing sneakers and a hat.
 4. Claiming not to have a girlfriend. Do you spend money on her? Has she met your friends? Have you had sober sex on several occasions? Do you spend the night? Do you eat meals together at restaurants? Are you doing the same stuff with anyone else? Yeah, she's probably your girlfriend, guy.
 5. Not understanding the value of cut flowers. I know that paying money for something that is going to be all wilty in, like, three days seems crazy. Sometimes rooms need a little brightening. Just go with it, OK?
 6. Saying "You had me at 'hello''' or "You complete me" with anything that approaches sincerity. Never mind. If you want to quote Jerry Maguire, don't let anyone stop you.
 7. Showing improper levels of jealousy. Some jealousy is good, natural, and a bit flattering. Driving four hours to punch Jim Halpert in the neck is cause for concern.
 8. Insisting on a level of grooming that you are in no way prepared to reciprocate. I'm with you, I'm not waxing my junk. That's final.
 9. Solving every problem. Dude, sometimes we're supposed to just listen and empathize. Even if a solution is slapping you in the face like Rick James in the China Club, just listen. Maybe give advice if the same issue constantly comes up. Maybe.
 10. Not taking the bait from an obvious attempt to fish a compliment. Compliment-fishing, like fishing where people are swimming, is pretty annoying, but sometimes everyone needs a few kind words.
 11. Taking numbers that you don't plan on calling. Honestly, is getting a whole mess of numbers still cool? Was it ever?
 12. Taking your teams too seriously. Don't take your hatred for the Gators out on anyone else, OK? On a totally separate note, I'm not to be disturbed for four hours after any Clemson football loss.
 13. Trying to look too cool in front of your friends. Yes, yes, bros before hos (am I using that phrase correctly?). But if you're mean to her in front of your buddies, they will not respect her. I suppose if she tries to chump you in front of your boys, though, your hands are untied.

Sunday, 9 November 2014

5 POSSIBLE WAYS TO DEAL WITH LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS 2

A long distance relationship (LDR) or a "long-distance romantic relationship" (LDRR) is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance. Partners in LDRs face geographic separation and lack of face-to-face contact. Have you ever experienced the freedom and the annoyance of a long distance relationship? It's just not easy, and it needs a lot of effort. But at times, it's also inevitable. We can't always stay together and at times, love has to be separated, even if only for a while. If you're facing a prospective long distance relationship and are wondering how to handle it or even get through it, here's everything you need to know.(Read How to deal with Jealousy in Relationship)

Saturday, 16 November 2013

3 Powerful Step On How To Get A Boy Friend





While figuring out how to get a guy to like you is important, learning how to keep him is crucial if you want things to progress. One of the best ways to keep him attracted to you is through having great sex.

1. Guys Are Cats
The first thing to say on the subject of learning how to get a guy want you is that you need to realise that men are just like cats. Sounds a little weird? Hear me out! Ever see a cat chase after a toy that is just sitting there? I certainly haven’t. However, when it’s dangled in front of them but still remains slightly out of reach,they literally go crazy for it. They jump around, chase, sprint and pretty much will do whatever it needs to do to catch this “just out of reach” toy.

Thursday, 14 November 2013

5 Possible Ways To Prevent Your Man From Cheating




Cheating is the most constant problem in a relationship, when one or both partners are trying to compromise issues about their relationship.women are mostly the ones at the receiving end. But you should know that most men do not cheat because they don’t love you anymore. Men cheat because they want more variety in their sex lives. Some complain of being bored. They want to feel adored by their partners; they want to assert their freedom; they are tired of disappointing you; they want a partner who places them at the center of their life, and they no longer feel like the priority in yours. Sometimes it’s because you are speaking different love languages, and some men say it is a biological directive to procreate with as many women as possible for survival of the species. Whatever the reason, men have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partners. It is most disconcerting for a man to realize he has disappointed his partner in some way. He wants to be her hero.

1. Let him have time to himself: Some men cheat because their woman don't give them time for himself they begin to feel hemmed in by the relationship. Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in a relationship. Allow your man time for himself without you. Don’t try to monopolize all your guy’s time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, sports, boys alone time and pursue hobbies, so as to not feel imprisoned.

2. make sure he knows how much you appreciate him: Sometimes when women “get” the guy and get married, they begin to get a false sense of security. Remember, all relationships are voluntary. With an over 50% divorce rate in Nigeria, we need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one. Don't wait for a spontaneous compliment, but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement.
3. Learn his love language: Learning your man’s love language goes a long way in saving and protecting your marriage. Learn your man’s love language and speak it to him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.

4. Don’t over-accommodate: Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man realizes this is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship
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5. Be willing to initiate sex: Men equate sex with desirability, so help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.

What Women Wants


when we talk about mysteries, we are not talking only about the biblical aspect of mystery but also the 

human ability to understand their fellow humans as partening to the fact that the stuctural design and wiring 

What's Love

When Should You Say “I Love You” for the First Time?
the word love is really hard to explain, it has no actual definition but it has to be experienced. people theme love according to their experience and encounter with it.

Good Communication In A Relationship

Communication is the best way to keep in touch with people that you love so never stay out of the track of communication because it helps in strengthening relationship.